POLITENESSE IN THE LANGUAGE

Politeness (politeness), kesopansantunan, or the label was the conduct, the tradition, or the habit that was valid in the community. Politeness was the behavior rule that was appointed and agreed together to by a certain community so as politeness at the same time became the prerequisite that was agreed to by the social behavior. Therefore, this politeness is normally mentioned “tatakrama”.

Was based on this understanding, politeness could be seen from various aspects in the everyday association. Firstly, politeness showed the attitude that contained the value or the label of good manners in the everyday association. When the person was it was said well-mannered, then in himself someone that was drawn by the value or the current value of the label of good manners well in the place community someone that megambil the part as his member. When he was it was said well-mannered, the community gave the value to him, both the assessment was carried out in a manner instantly (suddenly) and conventionally (long, took up a lot of time). It is certain that, the assessment in this long process more perpetuated the value that was given to him. Secondly, politeness was very contextual, that is current in the community, the place, or the certain situation, but not necessarily was current happy the community, the place, or the other situation. When someone met the intimate friend, might he used words that was rather rough with the loud voice, but that was not well-mannered if being aimed at the guest or someone who just was known. Tasted or digested food with the mouth

Fourthly, politeness was reflected in the clothed method (high-fashion), the method did (acted), and the method spoke (spoke).