THE FEMINISATION AND CAREER PLANNING

THERE IS three typical the case of career planning below this. The two parents Susi were the tax consultant who was successful in Semarang. This one of the most basic reasons why Susi that is 28 same years currently to the Consultant of tax

Was different from Dewi's experience, (29 years) that was to become a skilled lawyer since the period of SMA. Howaver after he went to class several months in the Law Faculty, he be forced provided out. The goddess realised evidently went to class in the Law Faculty not alternatif was not in accordance with his choice. Currently he chooses to work in the business of export clothes and evidently Dewi currently enjoyed pekerjan him. So also that happened to Melisa, the Marketing Manager a bank in Semarang this had the abundant pay but he did not enjoy his work (not enjoy with his profession). In fact, he had not wanted to become the career woman as well as delegence the banking field. Originally he only followed the wish of his two parents in order to work in the bank. Currently Melisa unfortunate that became the patient continue to the psychiatrist. He could not overcome his problem.

With the existence of the choice of tens of thousands of increasingly growing work kinds the flower in the community, the task of choosing the work was then increasingly difficult. The task chose the work kind not the minor matter. Not understanding of information, the shortage of knowledge and the experience, proved that the child young needed help also the suggestion from the other person to determine the work that was chosen by him. And although the school counsellor gave information important to choose the work that in accordance with the interest and their talent, but according to Marie Hodge and Jeffe Bliskal in Seven Ways to Help Your Child Choose Career said, parents that most played an important and influential role to his children.

Indetity Interest
Many adolescents that the incorrect usage, felt that they that was absolute determined his step personally in choosing the career. Broke Betts, the psychologist from Easton, Pennsylvania, said that he chose the work was begun from the age entered the class bench of one of SMA. ’’Saya realised that I enjoyed the work when with oang other. I liked to co-operate with the other person. ” parents necessarily helped his sons and daughters with questions along with this:

“Activity what was liked by you, that had an interest taken in him by you, the course what you tekuni, did you like to work with the other person or personally. What your hobby, matters what attracted the interest and hobimu” Nah, start first this would memengaruhi the method chose the career that in accordance with the interest and sons and daughters's talent you. The role of the teacher will in the school, the friend, the acquaintance, as well as the friend play a role also gave the directive and the guidance that were true for sons and daughters.

Give the Guidance, Not Order
Very important that as the final point, finally decisive whether the work that will be chosen by him was on the hands of sons and daughters. Parents's majority often forced his desire personally so that his children choose the work in accordance with their appetite. It was so flat that Patrick M. Donough, Eksekutif Director American Association for Conseling and Development. Parents usually aim profit and loss chose a work. According to Edwin Herr from Pennsylvania State University, just a few parents who gave the decision on the hands of his children personally. This will certainly cause the big problem even the spirit's jolt in children when this choice was wrong. There were two roads, right and left in meilih the career of children's future

The level of the understanding
Children who have been used to live organised more easy and more flexible determined the choice of the work that in accordance with skill and his knowledge. The experience berorgansiasi worked as the volunteer will increase the feeling of the self-confidence and high responsibility. They will realise important loved the work that was produced by them with his exertion personally. Work part time or small-scale efforts, apart from giving the experience beharga also made them more was interested working with his hands personally. Not spoilt and only menadahkan the hands to parents. To the writer, the radio transmitter, the singer, MC, and bisni parsel this was the good exercise.

Thoughts of the future
Many work projects that were offered in tren the business now. This increasingly will cause difficulties for in determining the choice worked. The government then opened the opportunity of working in the agency or the government company. However this still did not satisfy. Competence in working increasingly sharply.

Children usually more heed his suggestion of the favourite teacher in the school, career conselor or parents who it was considered could give the exact answer when they were confused to determine the work kind. Ms Iwan (Semarang) complained, Putra him that was 17 years old this apparently did not care about the future. However in fact Iwan had the problem. He did not know how began to choose the profession that will be chosen.

Actually Iwan has had the choice of the profession (was chosen-pilih him), but did not dare to reveal him to his parents. Iwan was frightened and felt his choice will disappoint his parents.